Instead of trying to live for the approval of others, I learned to live from the approval of God. And that new life and identity changed everything in my relationships, family, and leadership. If you haven’t noticed, faking it is exhausting. And sadly, our culture is silently training us to do just that. Our friends’ lives look more exciting on Instagram and Facebook, so we have to work extra hard to measure up—or at least look like we are. Recently I read an article that said social media is the