frustration.3 The only way to motivate others is to go in front and provide an example, and they will often follow. It’s not our job to fix other people. But we often find ourselves trying to do exactly that, and it’s frustrating when they don’t cooperate. So, what is our job? Many books on relationships talk about protecting ourselves from the weaknesses of others, setting boundaries, and keeping our distance. There is definitely a place for that perspective, because we can’t be victims of another