we need to exercise restraint, even when the situation seems urgent. Speaking or reacting too quickly can make matters worse if we do or say the wrong thing or use bad timing. Our best approach is to first strengthen ourselves with focused prayer, and then stay tuned in to God’s leading. His Spirit may prompt us to delay responding so that he can arrange events and set the stage for the best possible outcome. If we trust God for discernment, we can count on him to show us the right moment to speak