marriage. Security comes from knowing that your mate loves you in spite of your flaws and shortcomings. Real love is unconditional. That’s why judgment-free zones are so important. They allow your spouse to be all that God created him or her to be. In a judgment-free zone, your spouse can share all of her deepest insecurities. He can share his deepest fears and doubts. He or she can share without fear of being rejected, abandoned or mocked. Judgment-free zones are one of the hallmarks of a secure marriage.