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He Wins, She Wins Workbook: Practicing the Art of Marital Negotiation is unavailable, but you can change that!

When you get married, you expect your relationship to be a partnership in which you make decisions and face the world together, united. But often a husband's perspective and a wife's perspective on the same issue can be very different and unity in decision making can be tough. Should spouses take turns getting their way? Should they compromise? Can they avoid making decisions altogether? Dr....

Never do anything without an enthusiastic agreement between you and your spouse. This rule reminds a couple to avoid all of the win-lose strategies whenever they face a conflict and to focus all of their attention on finding a resolution that will make them both “enthusiastic.” Following that rule and finding win-win resolutions to conflicts are what we’ll spend most of our time on in this workbook. But before we do, let’s first take a look at which strategies you’re most frequently practicing as