A changed mind will always result in a changed heart. A life of optimism and joy is possible for all of us, no matter what we’re going through. After all, hearts anchored in God don’t sink. The encounter I had with Jesus when praying about my marriage was a game changer. I am in no way saying making the choice to focus on the positive was easy—oh, friend, it was so not easy. Actually, it might have been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do, especially in the midst of overwhelming heartache and