fifteen minutes will dramatically increase our trust, affection, and intimacy. In order for us to hone our listening skills and move from passive listening to active and spiritual listening, we need to have a basic understanding of who we are and how that relates to our spouses. For example, Christopher and I are tenacious, determined, and at times impatient. We are compulsively creative and addicted to finding God’s beauty everywhere. We are learning to live in faith but still