dialogue of our hearts and reminds us of how the truth of Jesus bears on our decisions in that moment. Distaste for sin is certainly a part of renouncing it. But that is not the whole picture. Your affections for what is wrong need replacing. You need to love something else more. Let’s think of something less dramatic than infidelity in marriage and much more common to Christian experience: anger. Whether it’s our short fuses, bitter outbursts, mean-spirited sarcasm, or passive-aggressive stonewalling,