They wait and wait, either for every possible fact and assurance or for an unmistakable gut feeling or a sign. If they’re not satisfied with what they’re seeing or feeling, they wait. They continue to search or to dabble in relationships or to hold on to a relationship, hoping they’ll get the necessary confidence to move ahead. It may never come. On the other hand, some fall in love, completely intoxicated by the overwhelming amazingness of those they fall in love with. They rush into marriage,