Candice Watters says, “It’s the man’s role to interrupt a woman’s plans.”2 Does that sound hard core? It should. Marriage is disruptive; it’s a game changer. In a marriage, one has to lead, the other has to follow. Look for a man whose calling you can share. Make it your calling too. There are many ways this can look (No; barefoot, pregnant, and subservient is not what I had in mind), and it’s very freeing to know you and your husband are on the same team, not competing for status, salaries, and