Tirabassi describes counseling engaged couples: “It’s like working with people on drugs.” He further explains, “Natural chemicals such as dopamine, endorphins, serotonin, and oxytocin can cause the same reaction as an illicit drug. Dating and engaged couples often find themselves in a chemically-induced condition. They have the uncanny ability to focus on their partner’s positive strengths and traits, rarely noticing the reality of their partner’s weaknesses.”2 A loving feeling does release those chemicals