trophy parenting is a piece of cake. Parenting with the right motives is difficult. We sometimes catch ourselves treating our children as extensions of ourselves. No one else on earth is exactly like Corynn—she is unique. She has some of my personality and tendencies but is different in so many ways. She enjoys holding my hand while walking down the path to our favorite fishing hole. We snuggle on the couch at night. She is constantly painting pictures, making duct-tape phone cases, and crafting