We have been created for relationship—relationship with God and with one another. In this life one thing is clear—God calls us to love one another. But we often don’t take the call to love others seriously. We add conditions to His command, supposing that we have a menu of different options depending on our present circumstances or the dynamics of our current relationships. We pick and choose whom to love, whom to forgive, and whom to reach out to. Our choice is often based on our own feelings of