“Why?” is saying “I need some explanation. I need some answers.” Having no answer can feed our anger. There is another side question to this issue. Would any answer suffice at this time? Is there any answer that would put the question to rest? More than likely the answer is, “No, not really.” Answers don't always make the pain go away. But don't let others keep you from voicing your pain. Don't be offended by their answers. Even though they don't know the answer, they may be trying to help you. Keep