Through grief you express the effects you have experienced from the devastating impact of the loss.1 Through grief you may experience God in a new way that will change your life as Job said, “My ears had heard of you before. But now my eyes have seen you” (Job 42:5 NCV). Along this difficult journey many experience what we call a “grief spasm.” It's alarming since it's an intense upsurge of grief that happens suddenly and when least expected. It's disruptive and you feel out of control. Some describe