best and the worst in me) or “Have you thought of putting Kim in a home?” (no, she’s God’s gift to us; plus she’s one of my best friends). Both the manager and the therapist have pieces of wisdom, but they miss love. Because they play it safe, they miss life in all its richness. They miss that not only was God resurrecting my soul and saving me from pride during my trip with Kim, but also that my mini-death gave Jill a mini-resurrection. That’s how love works. When I felt ashamed and frustrated with