a sharer in the injustices done to that group. Let me illustrate. Many whites pride themselves on being color blind. “I don’t think of you as black. I just think of you as my friend.” The black man might then understandably reply, “If you’re my friend, you’ll ask me what my experience has been like as a black man in this country.” A friend once said that to me. He rightly identified a failure to love my friend well. What such a reply also suggests is that it’s easy for members of the majority like