teammates. But just as likely, you said yes because you didn’t want to let people down and you didn’t want to disappoint the person making the request. In other words, you gave yourself one more thing to do so that you might look good before others. Ask yourself: Am I serving me or serving them? Saying yes always looks like the latter, but it’s often all about the former. Or think about how you help people who are hurting. We all have needy people in our lives, the kind that never get enough attention and