in virtually every case, the person refused to confront an issue of forgiveness or submission. The tormented man or woman believed the enemy’s lie that it was too difficult, that they couldn’t change, or that the “problem” lay with someone or something else. Significantly, the wounded person’s focus was very often not on the forgiveness or submission issue itself; instead, they were sidetracked by a debilitating fear which seemed to mask the underlying problem. I believe God’s Word gives hope where