instead of the team. This is a struggle for all of us because we want our peers to admire our abilities and our accomplishments, and we want them to see us as intelligent and capable. We want to be perceived as spiritually mature and we want to have a reputation as a man or woman who loves and respects our spouse and our family. We want to reveal our résumé and say that the reason we’re in our current position is our hard work and perseverance. Our flesh lobbies for recognition. Even the most committed