pleasure. Like fame or respect. Like people. Like marriage. Few would deny that marriages are destroyed by selfishness. At times, we all over-value our own pursuits while ignoring the desires of God and others. But we can’t cure our narcissism by trying to ignore ourselves. The solution is to stare at God. When we actually stare at Him, everything else fades to its proper place. Not only does meditating on God create closeness with Him, but it rekindles our fear of Him. Sometimes, it’s a healthy