hard times so that we can be there for that person just as God was there for us” (2 Cor. 1:4 MSG). You didn’t sign up for this crash course in single parenting or caring for a disabled spouse, did you? No, God enrolled you. He has taken the intended evil and rewoven it into his curriculum. Why? So you can teach others what he has taught you. Your mess can become your message. I like the conversation Bob Benson recounts in his book “See You at the House.” One of his friends had a heart attack. Although,