Christian celebrations. I pray that I don’t squander the chance to provide clarity to a willing and present audience. “Happy Easter! We haven’t seen you guys since Christmas Eve. Good to have you back,” a pastor chuckles as he opens his sermon. While the pastor probably thinks he is challenging people to be in church more often, or maybe just trying to be funny, he is unknowingly communicating the wrong message: that what the people need is to be in church more frequently. Of course the pastor doesn’t