embark on a vacation without first deciding where to go? I’m guessing no. If you don’t know where you’re headed, you won’t know what to take with you or how to get there. What you’d pack for a February weekend in Chicago is far different than what you’d pack for a weekend in San Diego over the same time of year. You can’t even punch an address into your GPS if you don’t first determine your destination. When my then girlfriend, now wife, Tami, attended college in downtown Chicago, I frequently visited