To follow one’s emotions is the surest road to loneliness and ruin. More than half of those who marry new lovers will eventually divorce again.5 Our best interests are served by returning to our spouses, resolving our conflicts, learning to love, and rediscovering our dreams. The third guidepost is: Divorce will not lead to personal happiness. That truth was affirmed by the late Judith S. Wallerstein. An internationally recognized authority on the effects of divorce, Wallerstein