get into the game; just sit on the sidelines. They say, “I don’t like the rules” or “I don’t care for the referee.” “The ball isn’t quite round.” “The goals are not right.” I remember some years ago talking with a salesman in a used car lot. As we looked out the showroom window, we saw a man who was going around kicking tires on the cars. He was also raising the hoods and banging the fenders. The salesman said disgustedly, “Look at that guy out there. He’s a wheel kicker. They are the bane of our existence.