we’ve got to learn how to stop the ride, without sabotaging our very lives. It has been seven months since my friend left ministry, and while he hates what happened—the choices he made, the lives he wrecked, the stained reputation that will forever be attached to his name—he admits that he has never been as healthy in his adult life as he is today. It took a scandal that rocked his world and the loss of everything he had held dear in order to finally learn how to slow down, to tend to his soul,