To not grieve the Holy Spirit is a command focused on the issue of sin: in thought, attitude, or action. “Grieve” is a word that means to cause sorrow or distress. It describes the pain the heart of the Holy Spirit can feel because of something we would do or allow in our lives. It is character centered. This is a boundary that must have the attention of anyone who is interested in hosting His Presence more powerfully. To not quench the Holy Spirit is a command that zeroes in on the co-laboring aspect