eight-week reality show marriage, and often at the end of a real marriage. When the cost of marriage becomes too great, we convince ourselves we have nothing left to gain, and therefore nothing left to give. It could be after a silly argument. It could be a heated moment, when words have been said that can’t be taken back. It could be in the middle of a misunderstanding. It could be in an instant when trust has been broken. It could be a time when your needs have not been understood. But no matter