self-centered society we live in, falsely believing that the main goal of life is our own personal happiness. If you’re getting married with this as your goal—to make yourself happy—you will be disappointed in a severe way. There will be a moment, a day, or even a season in marriage when, like it or not, you won’t be happy. That’s the nature of a relationship where two flawed people are rubbing up against each other daily. There’s bound to be a moment when someone is not happy! But marriage is not simply about