employment. If you have a conflict with someone, you can work on it. Charles Swindoll suggested that only ten percent of life is what happens to you. The other ninety percent is how you choose to react to it. Facts of life are situations over which you have no control. You have no control over the drunk driver who kills your child. You have no control over an earthquake that destroys your house. You have no control over coming down with cancer. Those things happen to the best and the worst of people. In