with the water of forgiveness. Forgiveness doesn’t come about by accident. It’s a choice. It’s an attitude. It’s a process. It’s a way of life. Forgiveness is not an emotion. If people had to wait until they felt like forgiving others, pigs would fly first. Forgiveness is found in the will. It’s a promise. As Jay E. Adams suggests, it is a commitment to three things: 1. I will not use the event against them in the future. 2. I will not talk to others about them. 3. I will not dwell on it myself.