allow other people’s opinions into our hearts as truth instead of as thoughts that we have a choice to accept or dismiss, we establish the foundation of walls God doesn’t want in our lives. We hold on to things we don’t need to hold on to. Other people’s opinions fit into that category. This is a tough one, right? My husband and I sometimes share a familiar saying when we’re finding ourselves a little frustrated on the family front: “Fish and family are a lot alike;