can give time early and prevent issues, or you can give more time later because you have issues. You will give time. Pay now or pay later, but you will pay.” We just prefer to pay our time in preventing problems and issues. One young couple came up to us after a conference and said, “We loved the video curriculum!” I (Pam) asked, “So which part of the Bible study did you find most helpful?” The newlywed couple said, “Oh, we didn’t do the Bible study. That was too much work. We just watched the video