Your real sin problem is not one specific sin, but your desire for sin itself. Think of my friend who told his confidant and counselor about his struggle with pornography. When my friend recounted this story to me, he understood why this advice was worthless. He said, “Even if I manage to never look at any naked woman again other than my wife, my heart won’t change just by saying no.” He didn’t just want the sin to stop; he wanted his heart to change. He didn’t just want to stop doing something wrong;