Look, let’s go ahead and name the elephant in the room—some prayers work, and some prayers don’t. Why does that surprise and irritate us? Some diets work, but most don’t; no one is really surprised by that. We simply keep looking for the one that will work for us. Some investments produce, and others don’t; you look for the program that works for you. Some schools are effective while others fail badly; hopefully you can find the situation that is right for your child. There is a way things work.