is not what God does for us that demonstrates his greatest answer to prayer; it is what God does in us . God wants to change us to his liking, not to change the world to our liking. As author and translator Eugene Peterson writes, “Prayers are not tools for doing or getting, but for being and becoming.”2 We need to ask God to take this fragile, selfish, flawed self of ours and make it more like him. God will answer that prayer. Oswald Chambers believed that prayer changes us so that we can then