craving both to receive love and to give it. Such recognition would be the first part of the bridge on which we could travel from the land in which even what looks like generosity is a form of self-centeredness to a land where generosity is our true self-interest. But how can we construct such a bridge? We can’t construct it using secular materials – or at least, I haven’t seen it happen so far, and I can’t imagine how it could. It takes God to make such a bridge, a God who is love, a God who gives and