What is the secret of a fulfilling marriage? Hard work and persistence! Sometimes in the middle of a conflict with Norma I really want to give up. But that’s only how I feel. Often I’m tired, run down, under too much stress — consequently, the future looks bleak. That’s when I rely upon knowledge, not feelings. I act upon what will strengthen our relationship, and in a few days I see the results. In fact, I usually feel better the next day and have renewed desire to work on our marriage. So I never