see what true spirituality looks like. Second, we must learn what particular barriers keep us from living this kind of life. Third, we must discover what particular practices, experiences, or relationships can help us overcome these barriers. For instance, we know that we are called to be loving. One thing I discovered when I spent a day trying to live in a loving fashion is that love requires an enormous amount of energy. And I was just too tired to give it. So I realized that — as unspiritual as