For most of us, trying to avoid a situation—or looking elsewhere for comfort—only makes matters worse. We end up even more frustrated, because nothing changes. We may even feel guilty for not being strong enough to deal with whatever thorn has gotten under our skin. Ultimately, we run even farther away from the only one who can truly help us. Whether you’re in denial, quoting Bible verses, trying to backtrack to your last spiritual high point, or abandoning your faith altogether, you’re still avoiding