But there’s a dark underbelly to feeling this kind of romantic love. If we can fall into it, then we can fall out of it. What happens when the emotions fade or disappear? What happens when someone else makes you feel even more alive? Then you have a serious problem on your hands. If you’re dating, it’s not the end of the world. You break up and move on. But what if you’re engaged? Married? Do you stay together, even though you’re not “in love” anymore? Or do you go the way of the 50 percent? I believe