This two-step process is familiar to anyone who has studied what the Bible calls sanctification: there is the putting off of old ways and the putting on of new—the rejection of pornography and the embrace of a godly view of sexuality. So, what’s the goal? We need to be clear about where we are trying to go. We need expectations that make sense in two ways. First, our expectations must be neither lower nor higher than the realities we see in Scripture. Second, our expectations must be in keeping with