realize that stopping the destructive dance starts with you. Here are some things that you can do right now to begin the process of facing reality. Talking with God about what’s happening both in your own heart as well as in your circumstances is important for many reasons, not the least of which is that you are about to battle an enemy much larger and vastly more powerful than your partner. Jesus called Satan a destroyer and the Father of Lies (John 8:44; 10:10). His aim is to shatter your