the primary drive in each sex. Sometimes this gets mixed up. Back in the late 1960s, when the feminist movement2 was hitting its stride, Aretha Franklin released a hit record entitled “R-E-S-P-E-C-T,” which clearly sent the message that all women were asking for was a little respect when they got home. Respect is what women needed, and they “had to have it.” “R-E-S-P-E-C-T” became something of a theme song for many women, but what most of them did not realize is that the song was really written by