But over time, they have been lulled into a dream by their own passivity and the allures of a dark, seductive culture. In this dream world, men often feel permission to be irresponsible, immature, and carelessly negligent in their roles as husbands and fathers. In the meantime, they have placed their families in moral and spiritual danger, threatening their marriages, their children, and their faith. They don’t realize that they can’t have it both ways. As a result, the mothers of their children