reason why wives have such a hard time with unconditional respect for their husbands is that they see and hear in pink while their husbands see and hear in blue. One wife described the problem perfectly: “We think so differently. I don’t even relate to what he considers respect—or the lack of it.” I struggled to help marriages for many years before I saw the answer to this problem in Ephesians 5:33. God is saying in so many words, “Yes, the two of you are very different, and I am telling you to love