Create a sexual mission statement (see chapter 12), reflect on your wedding vows, and meditate on 1 Corinthians 13. Be aware of your strengths and your areas that need growth. Make your relationship a top priority. Respect: Learn your wife’s needs, wants, and desires. Be aware of her insecurities and areas where growth is needed. Trust her with your vulnerabilities and limitations. Empathize: Listen to your wife. Try to see the world through her eyes. Be mindful of her feelings, and sacrifice your own