Appreciate their developing character growth as more important than their accomplishments. Children come into the world packaged differently. One has the capacity for a 4.0 GPA. Another will be doing his best simply to graduate from high school. One has been given the gift of music. Another seems to have no upfront gifts that others will notice, yet he has a compassionate heart. One has an IQ of 150, while his sibling has Down’s syndrome. We can praise that A or that stellar musical performance,