lead people without loving them. Caution! Don’t try to skip a level. The most often skipped level is 2, Permission. For example, a husband goes from level 1, Position, a wedding day title, to level 3, Production. He becomes a great provider for the family, but in the process he neglects the essential relationships that hold a family together. The family disintegrates and so does the husband’s business. Relationships involve a process that provides the glue and much of the staying power for long-term,